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Life with 4 neuroexceptional kids on different places of the spectrum.

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November 2014

Everyone Should Have A Teacher Like Mrs. Frizzle

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The media likes to report on the negative experiences of special needs children by teachers in America. We don’t hear as much about the positive impacts just one teacher can have on their students. What can happen when they DO get the support they need, and then some? What can happen if a teacher is really like Mrs. Frizzle from The Magic School Bus?
I can tell you what CAN happen because I have experienced it. Except, the teachers name isn’t Mrs. Frizzle, it’s Mrs. Strong (but she really does have red hair). She also has a classroom lizard, named Maxine (who was originally thought to be a girl – hence the name Maxine. It turned out to be a male lizard but the name stuck).

Mrs. Strong
Mrs. Strong
Maxine
Maxine

Mrs. Strong is a 4th grade teacher at a small private PK-8th grade school for kids with learning differences. There are students with dyslexia, ADHD, autism, auditory processing disorder etc. They are the students who often fail in the public school system because of their learning differences. My identical twin sons have attended since Kindergarten – one of them is in currently in 5th grade and the other in 4th (long story). Because of this, one twin was in her class last year, and the other has her this year.
Towards the end of the last school year, I nominated Mrs. Strong for the Kentucky Teacher of the Year award. She didn’t win, but she should have! I would like to share her story because I think these stories should be just as common as the negative ones. Below is the letter I wrote on her behalf (I added pictures because Mrs. Strong is fantastic about taking photos & sharing them with the parents!)

“I am the parent of a student in Mrs. Strong’s 4th grade class at (a) private K-8 school for students with learning differences. My son has a diagnosis of Autism Spectrum Disorder and has attended this school since Kindergarten. While he has had many fantastic teachers at this school, the change we have seen in him since the beginning of the school year is amazing. Mrs. Strong has high expectations of her students ability and pushes them to do their best. They have stepped up to the challenge because they do not want to disappoint her. I have seen my son go from someone who argued consistently about completing his homework; to someone who comes home and completes it on his own. My sentiments on his maturity this year is echoed by the parents of his classmates when we discuss our children’s successes.

What really sets Mrs. Strong apart from other teachers is the involvement she has with her class that goes above and beyond any teacher we have ever encountered. I am going to highlight some of the hands-on activities that have inspired her class.

– A Pow Wow to commemorate the end of the Native American unit. They played games using wampum for money, had a bonfire and discussed the traditions of various tribes. They also created masks with their “Native American” name which were displayed in the school lobby throughout the year.

The Totem created by the class.
The Totem created by the class.
The Pow -Wow (it was also Halloween!)

– A sleepover at school just for her class where they baked holiday cookies in the school kitchen, played flashlight tag and slept in the auditorium. For many students, this was the first time they had ever slept away from home and it cemented the “team” her class had become.

The sleepover
The sleepover


– A living wax museum following the explorers unit. Each student chose a explorer, researched them and came to school dressed as their explorer. They then delivered a speech to visiting students to the “wax museum” . The impact of this was huge; not only did the students get really into their characters (and their classmates) but it enabled them to practice public speaking skills. Many of the students have social – communication impairments, but stepped up to this challenge and even enjoyed it.

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The wax museum of “explorers”

 

In science, they incubated chicken eggs and installed a live webcam so the students could monitor the progress. After they hatched, they had the “chick derby” to find out which chick was the fastest. They were then returned to the farm that provided Mrs.Strong with the eggs.

The chicks!
The chicks!


– Her class participated in “Make a Difference Day” and stayed after school cleaning up the school grounds. Again, this was the first time many of the students engaged in manual labor and the sense of pride (along with blisters) was fantastic to see.

Making a difference!
Making a difference!


– For the American Patriots unit, they designed dish soap bottle patriots. The students had a great time researching / creating their patriots and presenting them to the school. By this point of the year, many students who struggled with public speaking felt much more comfortable.

The "Patriot" collection
The “Patriot” collection

On many afternoons, the class could be found participating in new activities. Mrs. Strong taught them how to fly kites, again a experience that some had not encountered before due to motor planning impairments. Other instances were jumping on pogo sticks to help with balance issues, taking “Maxine” the class lizard for a walk outside on a leash among many others.

Stand back, we're doing science!
Stand back, we’re doing science!

On the weekends, it was not unusual to see Mrs. Strong at events to support her students (Archery competition or a “Dare to Care” event). She has supported her students in the school drama club, which is where several students found their “voice” following the wax museum presentations. Every time I talk about Mrs. Strong with parents of former students, the sentiment is the same – Mrs. Strong was the most influential teacher their child ever had. It takes a special person to teach and an even more amazing person to inspire their students. Every student at this school has a learning difference; whether it is ADHD, Autism, Dyslexia, Downs Syndrome or something else that prevents them from learning the methods taught in the public school system. The school adapts teaching styles to the unique needs of each student and there is no better embodiment of this than in Mrs. Strong’s class. Instead of frustration, disappointment, and bitterness, Mrs. Strong’s students are celebrated and inspired. I am confident that my son is on a fantastic journey to highlight his ABILITY, not his disabilities. Mrs. Strong is that one teacher that every student should have in their lifetime.”

I can now talk about my other son who is in Mrs. Strong’s class this year. He is more impaired socially then his brother and often has issues with impulsiveness and staying “on-task”. We have seen improvements in his abilities this year such as actually participating in activities (versus stimming around the room), connecting socially with his classmates and really just enjoying being at school. He loves the hands – on lessons and is actually looking forward to the sleepover and other events scheduled this year.

This years Pow Wow was cut short because of rain!
This years Pow Wow was cut short because of rain!

The best thing so far? A field trip to a news station to reiterate everything learned during the weather unit. That will be a hard one to top – but if anyone can, it will be Mrs. Strong / Frizzle!

Giving his own weather report
Giving his own weather report
Hanging with the meteorologist
Hanging with the meteorologist

No Labels Required!

Last year my youngest was in the public school system, struggling to keep up with the common core standards. Her processing issues made it difficult for her to grasp the vocabulary that accompanied the entire math program. She worked hard and TRIED to keep up, but compared to most of her classmates, she was behind- academically and physically. The school she was at did try and give her extra help (small math groups a few times a week) but with 29 first graders and 1 teacher, there was only so much they could do. She had been diagnosed with auditory processing disorder prior to that year but the district doesn’t recognize APD as a disability hence, no IEP. She was one of those who kind of faded through because she wasn’t a behavioral issue and her performance, while in the lower tier wasn’t sending any major red flags.
At the end of last year, we had her go through a psych, medical and speech evaluation to determine a diagnosis. Was it just the APD or was there something else going on? I mentioned that at school she was not a behavioral problem, however when she was at home, she WAS capable of having hour long meltdowns. Her twin brothers had an autism diagnosis from the time they were 3 years old so we knew what their autism looked like. She didn’t really match up – she was fairly social, she could carry on a conversation etc. After a month of testing (they added additional tests because she was so borderline), she was diagnosed with ASD, it would have been Aspergers under the old DSM as well as receptive/expressive/ pragmatic language deficits, dyspraxia and anxiety.
We had to decide what to do for the next school year – send her to a private school or keep her in the public school system?  We were concerned about her having to “wear” the ASD label in order to get an IEP and how that might affect her socially. Most concerning of all, was her processing defecits and being able to succeed with the common core program. Give her a sheet of addition/subtraction and she can bust right through it. Give her a sheet with the same equations, but in a word problem, and she gets overwhelmed with the language part of it. “Addend, Sum of, difference between” was like putting the cart before the horse!

We decided to send her to the same private school her brothers have attended since Kindergarten – a school for kids with learning differences (ADHD, dyslexia, autism etc). The school has class sizes of 5-8 kids and they tailor learning to how the child learns best!

2nd - 8th grade cheerleaders
2nd – 8th grade cheerleaders

She is in 2nd grade at this school and is loving it! Instead of being in the lower tier of students in her public school, she is a rock star here and is doing things she would never have been able to in the public school. This is her cheering at her 1st basketball game. She has the “ASD” label now but here, unlike her old school she doesn’t need to be identified by her label. She is just herself!

People you find in pediatric therapy waiting rooms

imageIf you have spent time in Pediatric therapy waiting rooms getting services for your kids with Autism, you have inadvertently come across these people at one time or another. In fact, you may very well be one or a combo of these people. Personally, I have been been several of these at one time or another (4, 5 and 9 in particular). I drafted this in my head this past summer after spending several hours a day in waiting rooms!

1. The TMI’er-  They ensure that everyone knows what is up with their child. Before you part ways, you will have a strong understanding of their child’s current bowel issues ( how often they go, what it looks like etc), food preferences and their child’s current diagnoses.

2. The Newb – They are new to this scene after having their child age out of in-home early intervention programs. They often have the “deer in headlights” look in their eyes. Once they have been there awhile, they will morph into another type.

3. The Acronymer – These people speak in abbreviations “OT, SLP, PT, ABA, COMT etc.” They sometimes use 2-3 Acronyms in one sentence acronyms and are oblivious to the glazed look that comes into your eyes midway into the conversation. They have read a lot books and remain under the illusion that you have too. It is best to just nod your head as if in agreement and avoid clarification.

4.  The Been There/Done that –  They are loosely related to the Acronymer but will carry an air of superiority. They like to think that they are the Autismest person of all time and maybe they are – if only you could understand what they are talking about. They will often strike up a conversation with the Newb so they can impart their wisdom.

5.The I Cannot Lose Controller –  These are the ones that bring all their kids and keep them on a short leash in the event they wreak havoc on the waiting room. They will sometimes look with disdain at the kids who ARE wreaking havoc in the waiting room and will not allow their kids to join them. This will result in their kids getting upset and causing a scene – this will generally elicit a eye roll of “Do you see what I have to put up with?”.

6. The Groomed Professional-  they often look a little out of place in the waiting room amongst the jeans and Ugg boots. They are not the regular chauffeur for their child but are usually happy to be there and see what their child does. They are even happier when it is time for them to go back to work to make the money that pays for the therapies.

7. The Earth Mother – They know all staff, parents and kids and will address them all individually, by name, and remember what was going on with them the week before. Their own child is ignored and is likely to go tip the bookcase over to get attention.

8. The Drama King/Queen– Similar to the Been There/Done That with an exception, they make a grand entrance that no one can ignore. They will yell at their kids without hesitation and yell at yours if they see fit. You always know what is going on with them because they are LOUD in relating their tales of woe.

9. The Nobody Talk To Me– This person is the one sitting in the corner with a book or electronic device. They rarely make eye contact and just want to be left alone. Do not try and make small talk. Seriously, just leave them alone.

10. The Others This includes babysitters, nannies and grandparents. They are hoping that their charge avoids a meltdown and will do whatever it takes to keep them happy. They sometimes have siblings with them who wreak havoc in the waiting room and they will attempt to maintain control but the kids don’t listen to them, so it’s a half-hearted attempt. They clean up the mess inflicted during the scheduled therapy time prior to leaving.

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