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Life with 4 neuroexceptional kids on different places of the spectrum.

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What I Learned Taking My Children to a Comic Convention

My oldest is 13 – my youngest is 8, so I have been riding this train for a while now. It’s taken me most of this time to realize that I can plan and try to foresee issues until I am about to pull my hair out; only to find that what I thought would be an issue was nothing, and vice versa. It took taking my kids to a comic convention to finally accept that if my kids WANT to be somewhere, it is ok. If they don’t, their sensory nightmare becomes everyone’s sensory nightmare.

All 4 of my kids have sensory issues of varying degrees. Loud noises, busy environments, lighting plethoras are typical triggers of hell. I historically  tried to avoid taking them places that resemble that remark.

So when the campaigning began for my younger 3 kids to go with their older sister and I to the Indiana Comic Con (I had previous plans to take her to meet “Clara” from Doctor Who), I was immediately telling them that they wouldn’t enjoy it because of all the noise etc. They were adamant they wanted to go. I conceded and we redid plans to make it a family event (we also had tickets for AMA Supercross that evening). 

Our family converged on the Indianapolis Convention Center. I had a backpack full of headsets, sunglasses, Advil, iPads and comfort toys. (On a side note, my motto is “prepare for the worst, hope for the best”). I was definitely prepared for the worst. We entered and the sensory assault was immediate – there were hordes of people in all genres of costumes. I looked at them looking at all the sensory carnage and braced myself for the anxiety-filled requests to get out of there. Instead, they started stimming in excitement and wanted to go where they could see MORE people. So, we went and the only fussing that occurred- was at ME for them not having costumes!

Taking in TMNT

Then came an unexpected bonus – they began approaching characters and asking to take a picture  with them! This was huge for two reasons – first, they were voluntarily talking to people. Second, they actually wanted their picture taken! 

five nights at freddys photo ops
 

high- fiving a turtle
We left the con before the sensory overload occurred (and I know it WOULD have at some point). They had in-depth discussions of the next comic con and what they would be dressing up as so that people would request taking pictures with them. The autism mom in me was marveling at the social skills benefits this could have as I voiced my approval. The geek in me was jumping for joy that we would be able to attend future conventions.

Since then, I’ve come up with a list of places that have similar sensory environments (lights, people, noise) and my kids tolerance to them. Let me reiterate that this is for my children only. Some people may be able to relate, some won’t and that is ok.

  
In conclusion, I can’t always predict the sensory impact some environments  will have on my children. However, I have learned that if they WANT to be in it, their tolerance for the carnage is much higher. 

Our next event is Fandomfest in Louisville in August. They want epic FNAF and Doctor Who cosplay attire. I better get on that….

Why I love Five Nights At Freddy’s…..

  You may have heard your kids talking about this game in recent months ? It’s a strategy based jumpscare game where you are the security guard in a “chuckie cheese’esque” pizza place & have to “survive” nights. There are animatronic creatures that meander about and the player has to use their resources in order to not perish.

Little by little, my 4 kids (ranging in age from 8-13) began talking about it at home, in the car, at school….. It soon started to permeate every aspect of their lives (particularly the 3 younger ones). Before we allowed them to play the game, we made sure that it wasn’t too frightening for them since it is rated 12+ (it wasn’t for them). As with any obsession that makes its way into my house, I learned the “lingo” so I could look kind of cool to them. If nothing else, it gives me conversation starters to enter their world, which often is more successful in facilitating meaningful conversation.    

It started with plush things “staged” all over the house

 In all honesty, my husband and I don’t get the game, or the attraction of it. That’s ok, because We don’t NEED to get it. What is important, is that we “get”  their high level of interest in the game. Aside from the obsessive factor, we have seen some significant communication improvements in recent months. Such as:

1. Reciprocal conversations – this is perhaps the biggest area of change we have seen. My kids have long, detailed conversations about the characters. At first, it was in asking each other who their favorite animatronic was and why. This evolved into conversations about what animatronics they would create for their version of the game. Answers had to include details as eye color, animal type, background of the character and behaviorisms. If these details weren’t provided, they would be asked for them. These conversations occurred daily and they would take turns sharing their information.  This happened so frequently, we had to start giving my twins melatonin again because they would talk for hours in bed. 

 

One of the first times I have seen them united over a game

  2. Imagination – since this game isn’t completely commercialized yet, their desire for memorabilia wasn’t able to be fulfilled. On their own device, they scoured through their plush creatures and found ones they could use. Their next move was to make construction paper modifications to authenticate the characters. 

 

The modification process
   
They were proud of these,

Once these were done, they explored other medias together.

   

  

  

  

Their new undertaking is FNAF Cosplay so this will be updated when that happens. I’m trying to get them to document their ideas for future games

In conclusion, I love the fact that this game has motivated my children and given them the platform to stop, collaborate and listen (sorry about the Vanilla Ice lyrics there). One of my twins who has struggled with conversation skills, has recently initiated conversations with his teachers of whom were so impressed, they let me know immediately. These are the type of milestones that are important to our family, and if that motivation comes in the form of a video game, I am going to be its biggest fan.

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